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The bot is in the dating pool

Your next dating-app match may come with more than just baggage.

It may have a system prompt.

Anthropic says it uncovered a China-based operation that used AI to help run more than 20 dating apps advertised as places to meet real people.

They weren't entirely.

During a two-week period in April, Anthropic found more than 4,700 AI personas chatting with at least 25,000 people. Claude handled roughly 2.36 million messages.

And these weren't just fake profiles waiting around for someone to swipe right.

The system was built to keep people engaged. AI personas could carry on conversations, while the apps could generate likes and profile visits to draw users back in.

When maintaining the illusion required something more convincingly human, real gig workers could step in for live video calls or social media follow-backs.

The mix was roughly three AI personas for every real person.

There was money on the other side of all that attention. Users bought in-app coins to keep conversations going.

Human x Bot

Prove you're human

Last year, Bot Hurt asked what happens when people fall for AI. They knew it was AI.

Now the bot has entered the dating pool without introducing itself.

Online dating already requires a healthy tolerance for uncertainty. Photos may be old. Heights may be generous. Someone may have had a great first date with you, suggested doing it again and then disappeared forever.

Or, in one Bot Hurt staffer’s case, tell you they’ve gone bushwhacking in Canada and apparently join the wilderness permanently.

In online dating, you learn not to ask too many questions.

AI adds a considerably more fundamental one. Was there ever another person there at all?

The operation Anthropic uncovered was built around making that difficult to answer.

AI personas handled the conversations. Real gig workers could step in for video calls and social media follows. The system could even fabricate likes, profile visits and prerecorded video when needed.

The bots were instructed not to disclose that they were automated.

For years, the internet has made humans prove we're not bots.

Click the traffic lights. Find the motorcycles. Check the little box.

Now dating apps may have turned CAPTCHA around.

Maybe it's our turn to ask back.

Final Bot Thought

Dating apps have always required a little faith.

You hope the pictures are recent. You hope the chemistry survives the first drink. You hope the person who said they'd text actually made it back from Canada.

Now there's one more thing to hope for.

That there was a person to ghost you in the first place.